Twin Flame Separation - What NOT To Do
Have you tried everything?
I tried it all from healing myself, trusting divine timing, surrendering, casting spells, psychic readings, leaving him alone, being bold, moving on, waiting, crying and pleading, to playing it cool.
And after 4 years of it all consuming my life, he still couldn’t be in a relationship with me.
By the time clients come to me they also have tried it all and are tired, exhausted, confused, and feel like they are going crazy.
This list is everything I know doesn’t work or only works temporarily. These strategies might get you a little bit of progress, but in the end, your twin has free will and must be ready and willing to step into a healthy relationship. They get to change their mind about you. They also have free will to ignore what their soul wants.
What doesn’t work:
Any strategy that your inner child learned to get love and attention… (which could really be this whole list!)
Raising your vibration, manifesting, being perfectly aligned, and having no doubts. Ultimately you push down parts of you that feel differently.
Getting stuck in the “is this my twin flame?” mental loop. Staying in the head prevents feeling immense pain.
Healing yourself to heal your twin. This turns to spiritual codependency - we can’t control them.
Loving them so unconditionally and being so understanding that they continue to not have a reason to change.
Believing the intense, harmful thought that this is the deepest love you will ever find
Believing completely in the twin flame label you see online. People could be trying to sell you hope.
All in or all out thinking (blocking/withholding and unblocking/full blasting love)
Thinking about them and trying to strategize for reunion most hours of the day. This avoids reality and the pain of them not being available.
Basing your moods on telepathic messages, 11:11s, and twin flame tarot card and psychic readings. Signs aren’t always accurate.
Staying hooked to the beginning feelings and only thinking of the future potential of your twin and the beauty of their soul
Find things that work in the next blog.