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What are we looking for when we scour the internet for a twin flame spell that brings the runner back to you?
We are looking for hope, validation, assurance, peace of mind.
All of these are priceless. Many, if not all of my twin flame coaching and hypnosis clients have reached out to a psychic or looked for spells to bring them some clarity and peace around their connection.
All of them still end up eventually feeling that deep longing and anxiety of when their twin will come back. It's heart and soul-breaking not knowing if or when your twin will return.
Often our twins hold the keys to all our dreams, happiness, life purpose and more.
It's a lot for one person to carry for another. Often the runner senses that and heads for the hills.
So how can we get the twin to come back? The parts of us that need to strategize and do something to make our dreams come true go into overdrive.
We will try anything to get them back in our lives and back to the good feelings.
We draft the perfect texts and emails. We hire psychics and spell casters, tarot card readers, get your ex back coaches and more.
I did it too! And many can be really helpful. But often times we are wanting to get back someone who isn't good at relationships, intimacy, and consistency.
So why are we still drawn to someone who has hurt us and isn't 100% on board with a life with us?
The spell I want to talk about today isn't one that binds you two together. But one that breaks a spell.. The Twin Flame Spell..
When you are under a twin flame spell you see the best in this person.
You are forgiving and kind. Sometimes you get mad but ultimately you are understanding of their life and why they do things.
You let them back after it becomes too unbearable to be apart from them. You show them how much you love them by letting them be by not overloading them and noticing and carrying for their feelings.
When their actions of ghosting, inconsistent contact, failing to see our needs, lack of commitment, fear of intimacy, addiction and more become too much, we try to break away.
But we can not - not emotionally, physically or spiritually.
We may be able to do it for a little while, but ultimately we get pulled back in.
We are under a spell.
This is the Twin Flame spell.
Having no control over how much we love them and how pulled to them we are. We can not leave.
We can walk away and feel a ton of pain missing them. Or we can stay and feel a ton of pain not having our needs met.
Break the Spell
To break the spell we must look at what hooks we have in our twin. What is the pull? What part of us (inner child, etc) is pulling us to them?
Parts of us can see the reality.
Parts of us don't see the reality.
Often in coaching and hypnosis, we find the parts of the chaser that are all loving and very attached and let them know what is going on. What dysfunctional things the twin is doing?
The loving part is not usually even aware anything bad has happened.
The loving part doesn't even know how hurt other parts of you are. They often leave the body and spirit when you are sad and in pain from what your twin has done or not done.
That's why we swing so hard from I love him, I accept to. I'm done with him, no more.
That's why when we promise ourselves no contact, we break down halfway through.
Where does the spell come from?
The spell gets cast when we feel unconditional love, sparks, spiritual connection, and complete union with someone for the first time.
Who casts the spell?
That is up for debate.. Maybe your spirit? Both of your higher selves cast it? Possibly the wounded younger parts of us that finally feel belonging and love for the first time. Let me know your thoughts.
How do we break the spell?
The spell is broken when we finally see them for who they actually are.
Healthy and unhealthy, good and bad.
And we accept and love them just as they are. And when we can truly assess if they can meet our relationship goals and needs.
We can also break the spell by being really bold and clear on what we want. Ask them if they want a relationship with you. Ask them if they can see themselves married with kids (or whatever it is you want.) Ask them to take you on dates. Often with our twins we change our dreams to match what they are giving us. That is living under a spell. Seeing good in something that doesn’t meet our needs.
We can finally accept the difference between their 5d and 3d.
We know that the kind of wounds that keep people from healthy relationships take time and investment in therapy/coaching etc. We aren't childlike in hoping someone will be healed and changed after 30 days of no contact. (That is the spell working on our minds).
We see the real truth of them. We don't want them to be different or better, so we can be in a relationship with them and get our needs met.
We know the spell is broken when we can smile and say goodbye. Wish them well. Leave a small space for them if they do their inner work and come back.
We are grateful for them and how they pushed us to more healing. We forgive them for not being ready to be in a relationship. We respect they can't make up their minds.
We decide to move on even though they will always want us in their lives. We know it is best for them if we move to higher energies, and let them find their own healers and therapist.
We accept that we can not influence their healing beyond probably 20% or so. We are powerless. Just like when we were children and we couldn’t fix our world, parents, bullies, etc.
They are free to choose themselves if we aren’t there distracting them. We can’t give them what they need to be “happy.” They need less time together. Less intense emotions. Less responsibility for others’ feelings. Less commitment.
This is the most loving thing.
Twin flame reunion with the truth.
Twin flame reunion with all the parts of you being on the same page. Not in a tug-of-war.
Seeing someone for who they are. Not wanting to change them. Blasting them with love as you walk towards you future.
If you want to break your twin flame spell and see your twin for who they really are, then let’s work together on this. I also offer a free 20 minute twin flame assessment where I can let you know my thoughts on your situation and what work I think would help.
