Am I the Twin Flame Runner?

You aren't the runner if they can't show up and meet your needs.

You aren't the runner if you move on because they won't leave their spouse.

You aren't the runner if you date other people while they can't commit.

You aren't the runner by cutting the unhealthy cords.

You aren't the runner if you stop healing them because it is draining you.

You aren’t the runner if being connected to them - even energetically - is making your life hard.

You aren’t the runner if you have to block them because they can’t meet your communication needs.

You aren’t the runner if you pull back to get a better perspective on the connection.

Moving away from people who can't meet your needs after you have asked many times... is not running. You aren't ruining things by giving up on them. You are choosing yourself and that is this journey.

If you grew up in a family or with parents and you had to “understand” their shortcomings, you will most likely end up with a twin flame where you have to be the understanding and patient one.

Many of us have to give up on our twin flame to find peace and love.

You are smart to move away from something that is more pain than pleasure.

By obsessing over our twin flame we can’t focus on work, the people who love us, and our purpose.

It feels impossible to move on but that is only because they are meeting an essential need of yours. Once you identify that deep, old need then you will not feel as pulled to this person. You will see them for who they are - in all their glory and their humanness.

There’s so much stigma around being a runner. But I hope you do run from someone who loves you ONLY on the soul level.

Run towards yourself!